In 2007 my idea to create a quality children's entertainment company offering age appropriate programming became a reality. Along with the talent of my husband and several staff along the way, Party at Your Place, developed a reputation for having the best costumes, the best activities and the best entertainers. In fact, we won an award for it in 2008.
However, companies like mine struggle to promote because we are always at risk of a lawsuit from the very companies that own the characters you want for your children. These companies hire lawyers specifically to hunt us down and tear apart what little business we have. Well, they have won.
I have made the difficult decision to close down Party at Your Place and it hurts. It hurts to see something I have put my heart into fall apart. It hurts to know that the joy we have brought to countless children will be no more. Party at Your Place will be closing down at the end of June 2013.
I want to thank everyone who has ever used our services and/or referred us to friends and family. Thank you for allowing us to share in your child's special day. I have watched many of your children grow up over the past 5 years and really felt like a part of many of your families. I want to thank everyone who has ever sent me or my staff an email filled with kind words about your experience with us. These are the things I will remember and cherish most.
Because of all of you I have experienced so many amazing events. You have dazzled me with your amazing decorating ideas, cakes too beautiful to eat, unique activities or performers, cultural traditions and so much more. I have learned so much from all of you and I thank you.
If you used our services for your child's party my only wish is that we left you and your guests enough memories to last a lifetime. Maybe you will share some of those memories in the comments.
Friday, March 15, 2013
Wednesday, September 26, 2012
Halloween Costume Tips
Fall is in the air and that can only mean one thing; Halloween is just around the corner. The early birds have probably already picked out their costumes, but many of us are still deciding what to dress our children up as (or waiting for them to decide what they want to be).
Whatever the choice is, there are a few things to consider before making your purchase:
1. Size matters.
You need to know what the weather is where you live. I am in Canada where Halloween usually requires a jacket and sometimes even a winter coat. When selecting a costume we always buy a side that will fit over the warm clothing. Otherwise, the costume is going to get covered up and that is no fun on Halloween night.
2. One piece suits and infants and toddlers
If you have a child in diapers or a toilet trainee on your hands you might want to look for 2 piece costumes to make diaper changes and potty breaks more manageable. (trust me)
3. Costumes and School
Many schools do not allow scary costumes at school because some children are afraid. Most schools do not allow weapon replicas either. When choosing a costume that will be warn at school it is important to know what the guidelines are for your school.
Remember to also keep your children safe on Halloween by ensuring they have something reflective on their costume and that they do not go trick-or-treating alone.
Whatever the choice is, there are a few things to consider before making your purchase:
1. Size matters.
You need to know what the weather is where you live. I am in Canada where Halloween usually requires a jacket and sometimes even a winter coat. When selecting a costume we always buy a side that will fit over the warm clothing. Otherwise, the costume is going to get covered up and that is no fun on Halloween night.
2. One piece suits and infants and toddlers
If you have a child in diapers or a toilet trainee on your hands you might want to look for 2 piece costumes to make diaper changes and potty breaks more manageable. (trust me)
3. Costumes and School
Many schools do not allow scary costumes at school because some children are afraid. Most schools do not allow weapon replicas either. When choosing a costume that will be warn at school it is important to know what the guidelines are for your school.
Remember to also keep your children safe on Halloween by ensuring they have something reflective on their costume and that they do not go trick-or-treating alone.
Sunday, September 16, 2012
Why I Like Loot Bags
There is much controversy lately as to whether children should receive loot bags or not. Some feel they promote greed, while others feel they show gratitude to your party guests. For me I like them because I feel they are a developmentally appropriate party staple, especially for younger children, and especially when gifts are opened at the party.
We have all been to parties where young children want to touch all the gifts and perhaps even cry that they want something they see. It's hard for young children to understand why one special kid gets everything while they sit and watch. While I will not argue the fact that this is a part of life and children need to learn they won't always get what they want, I find that when kids learn that they do get a loot bag at the end of the party they feel less left out.
Some parents don't like them because they are often filled with junk that breaks at first touch. Loot bags don't have to be this way though. There are many other cost effective alternatives that have a more useful lifespan and still keep children excited.
Some loot bags that we have done over the years include:
1. For an Elmo themed party the children each received a gold fish. The total cost for this 'loot bag' was less than $4 per child. I printed themed labels to put over the fish food container and added a thank you note.
2. For a Ninja Turtle theme I made these bags using green craft bags and construction paper. Inside was a TMNT comic book, crayons, colouring sheets and some TMNT candy. Total cost per child was less than $3.
3. For a Blues Clues theme I made Pail and Shovel by drawing faces with permanent marker. Inside I put a small beach ball, Blues Clues notebook, and crayons. I also wrote the children's names on the back of the bucket. I wrapped them in cellophane for presentation, and added Blues Clues stickers for extra detail. The total cost for this loot bag was about $5 a child.
4. I forgot to take a picture of the loot bags, but for a bowling party I bought the plastic bowling sets from Walmart. They came with 10 pins and 2 balls. I divided them to give each child 5 pins and 1 ball. I wrapped them in cellophane for presentation. It was $5 a child.
5. Now that my kids are older we have been giving a sport ball as a loot bag. My 6 year old gave each child a playground ball in a mesh bag and my 9 year old will give a soccer ball in the same mesh bags at his party. The total cost for this is about $6 a child. While slightly pricey, it promotes active play and is useful.
There are countless ideas on the market for loot bags so you are sure to find something that works with your theme and age group. Try to think outside the 'bag' and find something cost effective and useful.
Giving loot bags can also teach the birthday child a life lesson in thankfulness so it's win win all around. Happy Looting!
Use the comment section to share your favourite or least favourite loot bags. Do you like the idea of loot bags or wish they would just go away?
We have all been to parties where young children want to touch all the gifts and perhaps even cry that they want something they see. It's hard for young children to understand why one special kid gets everything while they sit and watch. While I will not argue the fact that this is a part of life and children need to learn they won't always get what they want, I find that when kids learn that they do get a loot bag at the end of the party they feel less left out.
Some parents don't like them because they are often filled with junk that breaks at first touch. Loot bags don't have to be this way though. There are many other cost effective alternatives that have a more useful lifespan and still keep children excited.
Some loot bags that we have done over the years include:
1. For an Elmo themed party the children each received a gold fish. The total cost for this 'loot bag' was less than $4 per child. I printed themed labels to put over the fish food container and added a thank you note.
2. For a Ninja Turtle theme I made these bags using green craft bags and construction paper. Inside was a TMNT comic book, crayons, colouring sheets and some TMNT candy. Total cost per child was less than $3.
3. For a Blues Clues theme I made Pail and Shovel by drawing faces with permanent marker. Inside I put a small beach ball, Blues Clues notebook, and crayons. I also wrote the children's names on the back of the bucket. I wrapped them in cellophane for presentation, and added Blues Clues stickers for extra detail. The total cost for this loot bag was about $5 a child.
4. I forgot to take a picture of the loot bags, but for a bowling party I bought the plastic bowling sets from Walmart. They came with 10 pins and 2 balls. I divided them to give each child 5 pins and 1 ball. I wrapped them in cellophane for presentation. It was $5 a child.
5. Now that my kids are older we have been giving a sport ball as a loot bag. My 6 year old gave each child a playground ball in a mesh bag and my 9 year old will give a soccer ball in the same mesh bags at his party. The total cost for this is about $6 a child. While slightly pricey, it promotes active play and is useful.
There are countless ideas on the market for loot bags so you are sure to find something that works with your theme and age group. Try to think outside the 'bag' and find something cost effective and useful.
Giving loot bags can also teach the birthday child a life lesson in thankfulness so it's win win all around. Happy Looting!
Use the comment section to share your favourite or least favourite loot bags. Do you like the idea of loot bags or wish they would just go away?
Saturday, September 1, 2012
You're Not Invited to my Party and That's OK!
I am not sure when our society turned into such a coddled environment for children. The children of today seem to have to be protected from every possible 'bad' feeling. Soccer teams can no longer keep score for fear of upsetting a losing team, Some schools have banned 'best friends' because it can make other children feel less special, and parents of today are pressured to invite every child in the class or no child at all to their children's birthday parties.
While I can't do much about the first two items I want to provide some relief to the whole party inviting thing. It's ok to not invite every child to a party. It's ok to invite 5 of your child's closest friends at that's it.
I find the all or nothing concept very unfair because many families simply cannot afford to throw a party for 25 children leaving their child party-less which is still exclusion in my books. Why should only the 'rich' kids get to have parties?
As a parent I don't want my child invited to every party because I don't want to buy gifts for children my kid doesn't even play with on a daily basis. It's ok with me if they sometimes are left out.
I am not for the mentality that all children need to be friends with all children. As adults we don't invite the whole work place to our parties. We invite our friends and that's ok.
What is not ok about selective inviting is being mean about it. It's important that we as parents instill this value into our children. Here are some tips on how to teach your child to be a nice non-party-host:
1. Set the limit to the number of children your child can invite. Review the list together and make sure no one was accidentally left out.
2. Don't invite all the kids in the class except for a couple of kids. The child that picks their nose and the one who is allergic to everything shouldn't be the only exceptions. This starts to be mean and more of a 'bully-like' issue.
3. Tell your child you don't want to hear of any birthday taunting. Meaning she is not to rub it in other children's faces that they are not coming.
What do you think about all the hoopla of inviting the whole class or no one at all? Do you invite everyone? Do you send your child to everyone's party?
While I can't do much about the first two items I want to provide some relief to the whole party inviting thing. It's ok to not invite every child to a party. It's ok to invite 5 of your child's closest friends at that's it.
I find the all or nothing concept very unfair because many families simply cannot afford to throw a party for 25 children leaving their child party-less which is still exclusion in my books. Why should only the 'rich' kids get to have parties?
As a parent I don't want my child invited to every party because I don't want to buy gifts for children my kid doesn't even play with on a daily basis. It's ok with me if they sometimes are left out.
I am not for the mentality that all children need to be friends with all children. As adults we don't invite the whole work place to our parties. We invite our friends and that's ok.
What is not ok about selective inviting is being mean about it. It's important that we as parents instill this value into our children. Here are some tips on how to teach your child to be a nice non-party-host:
1. Set the limit to the number of children your child can invite. Review the list together and make sure no one was accidentally left out.
2. Don't invite all the kids in the class except for a couple of kids. The child that picks their nose and the one who is allergic to everything shouldn't be the only exceptions. This starts to be mean and more of a 'bully-like' issue.
3. Tell your child you don't want to hear of any birthday taunting. Meaning she is not to rub it in other children's faces that they are not coming.
What do you think about all the hoopla of inviting the whole class or no one at all? Do you invite everyone? Do you send your child to everyone's party?
Monday, March 5, 2012
It's Her Party!
A phrase I often hear is "I know it's her birthday but she is too young". Parents often believe that their child cannot enjoy the entertainment because she is turning one or two years old. This is not the case. Your toddler can (and should) enjoy her own party. After all, it's her party.
I think the reason parents have these beliefs is because they are used to typical party entertainment options such as; clowns, face painting, magic shows and other non-interactive experiences. All these options can make a great party but when dealing with toddlers and preschoolers it's important to remember their stage of development.
Toddlers and preschoolers will enjoy a party where they are free to move and explore, be introduced to new materials and participate in flexible games and activities. This is why I thoughtfully created programs that your youngest party goer can enjoy.
Our Typical Toddler Party
(based on a home party with under 15 children. Otherwise a customized plan is created to meet your party's individual needs)
Character + Party Leader: We send out a team because we want the children to maximize their time spent with the character. The party leader is able to operate the music, set up the next activity and make transitions run smoothly.
Music and Bubbles: We bring fun music and a bubble machine as an opening activity. This gives children a chance to dance with the character, get their excitement out, and for children who need it; time to warm up to the character.
Parachute and Bean Bag Games: These materials are perfect for toddlers because they are easy to manipulate, fun to explore and do not have any 'rules'. This makes these activities the perfect developmental choice for young children.
Sing-a-long: We selected a few common childhood songs that are fun to sing. This flexible circle time experience is one that even a child as young as 6 months old will enjoy being apart of.
Colouring and Tattoos: This portion of our program was designed to allow for a fun tattoo drawn on each child's hand. This is more appropriate than face paint because the child can actually see the tattoo which is more enjoyable for them. Because the tattoos are drawn quickly the waiting time that occurs for face painting is reduced which better meets their stage of development. However, to avoid any conflicts or restlessness we offer them colouring as a side activity while they wait.
Picture Time: Because parties are about memories we save some time with every party for picture taking time. This allows the children to enjoy uninterrupted activity time for most of the party.
Cake Time: Before we leave the party we can sing happy birthday with you. This makes for a fun experience and more great pictures. It also acts as a distraction for when we leave. Children may be sad to see us go but with cake nearby they tend to have a better transition.
Remember, your child's party can be enjoyed by her, even if she is turning one. Keep her stage of development in mind when selecting entertainment and watch her have fun on her special day.
I think the reason parents have these beliefs is because they are used to typical party entertainment options such as; clowns, face painting, magic shows and other non-interactive experiences. All these options can make a great party but when dealing with toddlers and preschoolers it's important to remember their stage of development.
Toddlers and preschoolers will enjoy a party where they are free to move and explore, be introduced to new materials and participate in flexible games and activities. This is why I thoughtfully created programs that your youngest party goer can enjoy.
Our Typical Toddler Party
(based on a home party with under 15 children. Otherwise a customized plan is created to meet your party's individual needs)
Character + Party Leader: We send out a team because we want the children to maximize their time spent with the character. The party leader is able to operate the music, set up the next activity and make transitions run smoothly.
Music and Bubbles: We bring fun music and a bubble machine as an opening activity. This gives children a chance to dance with the character, get their excitement out, and for children who need it; time to warm up to the character.
Parachute and Bean Bag Games: These materials are perfect for toddlers because they are easy to manipulate, fun to explore and do not have any 'rules'. This makes these activities the perfect developmental choice for young children.
Sing-a-long: We selected a few common childhood songs that are fun to sing. This flexible circle time experience is one that even a child as young as 6 months old will enjoy being apart of.
Colouring and Tattoos: This portion of our program was designed to allow for a fun tattoo drawn on each child's hand. This is more appropriate than face paint because the child can actually see the tattoo which is more enjoyable for them. Because the tattoos are drawn quickly the waiting time that occurs for face painting is reduced which better meets their stage of development. However, to avoid any conflicts or restlessness we offer them colouring as a side activity while they wait.
Picture Time: Because parties are about memories we save some time with every party for picture taking time. This allows the children to enjoy uninterrupted activity time for most of the party.
Cake Time: Before we leave the party we can sing happy birthday with you. This makes for a fun experience and more great pictures. It also acts as a distraction for when we leave. Children may be sad to see us go but with cake nearby they tend to have a better transition.
Remember, your child's party can be enjoyed by her, even if she is turning one. Keep her stage of development in mind when selecting entertainment and watch her have fun on her special day.
Monday, January 23, 2012
Disney Countdown Calendar
In December 2011 I finished the two year Early Childhood Education program at Sheridan College. It had been a long road for my family as I often found myself saying "I'm too busy" to my kids and mom guilt had taken up residence inside me.
I knew all I wanted once I was finished was more time with my husband and children, but with dreams of expanding my entrepreneurship in 2012, time was bound to remain a luxury.
So, my husband and I decided it was time to plan the best family vacation ever and that meant Disney World!
We told the children about the trip on Christmas day as part of their gift even though we weren't planning to go until the end of January. I didn't want to hear "is it time to go yet" every day for the next month, so I made them a countdown calendar (also part of their gift).
It has been the highlight of each morning in our house as the kids race over to it each day to read the fun fact inside and move the counter another day closer to our dream vacation. And I haven't been asked even once "is it time to go yet". (Yay)
A similar calendar can be made to countdown to anything. You can make one for Christmas, Birthdays or your own family vacation.
Disney Countdown Calendar
What you'll need
- Large Foam Board (Foam is more durable than bristol board)
- Library card pockets
- Numbers (either: stickers, printed from online, or hand written)
- Fun Facts
- Popsicle Stick
- Tape
- Glue stick
How to Make it
1. Collect/create enough fun facts to fill your calendar (one fact per day). I typed them up on the computer and cut them out and glued them to card stock folded like a card. I used a coloured circle sticker to seal the fact shut (so little eyes wouldn't be tempted to peek).
2. Put your numbers on the library card pockets
3. Lay all the library card pockets on the foam board, from highest number to lowest number, until you have them how you want it. Peel and stick your library card pockets on the foam board.
4. Stick your fun facts in each pocket.
5. Make a counter. I used a mickey face that says "Days 'til Disney" on it. I used packing tape to cover the whole thing to make it durable and appear laminated. Then, I taped black hockey tape around the popsicle stick and taped the mickey face to the top on the popsicle stick.
Extra: I bought Mickey die cuts on eBay to add some colour to the pockets and to help decorate the board. I also printed some text to give the calendar a title; "Days Till Disney". You could use stickers, die cuts or your own artistic skills to help add some colour to your board.
Some example fun facts I used:
"In Florida lizards walk around the same way squirrels run around here"
"At some restaurants characters come out to greet you while you eat"
"The plane ride to Florida will be almost 3 hours long"
And this is what my finished calendar looks like.
I knew all I wanted once I was finished was more time with my husband and children, but with dreams of expanding my entrepreneurship in 2012, time was bound to remain a luxury.
So, my husband and I decided it was time to plan the best family vacation ever and that meant Disney World!
We told the children about the trip on Christmas day as part of their gift even though we weren't planning to go until the end of January. I didn't want to hear "is it time to go yet" every day for the next month, so I made them a countdown calendar (also part of their gift).
It has been the highlight of each morning in our house as the kids race over to it each day to read the fun fact inside and move the counter another day closer to our dream vacation. And I haven't been asked even once "is it time to go yet". (Yay)
A similar calendar can be made to countdown to anything. You can make one for Christmas, Birthdays or your own family vacation.
Disney Countdown Calendar
What you'll need
- Large Foam Board (Foam is more durable than bristol board)
- Library card pockets
- Numbers (either: stickers, printed from online, or hand written)
- Fun Facts
- Popsicle Stick
- Tape
- Glue stick
How to Make it
1. Collect/create enough fun facts to fill your calendar (one fact per day). I typed them up on the computer and cut them out and glued them to card stock folded like a card. I used a coloured circle sticker to seal the fact shut (so little eyes wouldn't be tempted to peek).
2. Put your numbers on the library card pockets
3. Lay all the library card pockets on the foam board, from highest number to lowest number, until you have them how you want it. Peel and stick your library card pockets on the foam board.
4. Stick your fun facts in each pocket.
5. Make a counter. I used a mickey face that says "Days 'til Disney" on it. I used packing tape to cover the whole thing to make it durable and appear laminated. Then, I taped black hockey tape around the popsicle stick and taped the mickey face to the top on the popsicle stick.
Extra: I bought Mickey die cuts on eBay to add some colour to the pockets and to help decorate the board. I also printed some text to give the calendar a title; "Days Till Disney". You could use stickers, die cuts or your own artistic skills to help add some colour to your board.
Some example fun facts I used:
"In Florida lizards walk around the same way squirrels run around here"
"At some restaurants characters come out to greet you while you eat"
"The plane ride to Florida will be almost 3 hours long"
And this is what my finished calendar looks like.
Thursday, December 22, 2011
Christmas Fun For Your Kids (From My Kids)
My boys have been enjoying the Christmas season from: shopping, to baking, to reading stories, and crafting (and a whole bunch more in between).
This evening Dorian, my 5 year old, said that he was going to show me how to make a snowflake. I was so impressed with his presentation that I offered to make a video of it (for all of you of course). This is Dorian's "How To Make a Snowflake" step-by-step video:
Once his 8 year old brother DeAndre saw it, he too wanted to make a video. Since DeAndre enjoys telling jokes, he wanted to dazzle you with a few festive one-liners. Enjoy!
From our house to yours we'd like to wish you and your family a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
This evening Dorian, my 5 year old, said that he was going to show me how to make a snowflake. I was so impressed with his presentation that I offered to make a video of it (for all of you of course). This is Dorian's "How To Make a Snowflake" step-by-step video:
Once his 8 year old brother DeAndre saw it, he too wanted to make a video. Since DeAndre enjoys telling jokes, he wanted to dazzle you with a few festive one-liners. Enjoy!
From our house to yours we'd like to wish you and your family a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
Come Out & See Us For a Good Cause
I recently brought your attention to Zack's story and what we were here at Party At Your Place are doing to help his family. Now, Lisa has began working to put together an event to raise money for Zack's dream Elmo room and I just had to be a part of it.
Click here to see the event details page on Facebook.
Place: Taima Zone (Mississauga)
Date: April 29, 2011
Time: 5:00pm-9:00pm
Special Guest from Party at Your Place: 6:00pm-7:00pm
Also Featuring;
-Silent auction
-Zumba
-Food and drinks
-Much more fun
We hope that you will join us for a good family night out in support of Zack's dream. Remember we are still donating $10 from all monster parties to Zack's dream.
Click here to see the event details page on Facebook.
Place: Taima Zone (Mississauga)
Date: April 29, 2011
Time: 5:00pm-9:00pm
Special Guest from Party at Your Place: 6:00pm-7:00pm
Also Featuring;
-Silent auction
-Zumba
-Food and drinks
-Much more fun
We hope that you will join us for a good family night out in support of Zack's dream. Remember we are still donating $10 from all monster parties to Zack's dream.
Monday, March 21, 2011
Zack's Dream Room
"La La La La. La La La La, Elmo's Song"
This is one of my favorite songs to sing at parties because everyone knows all the words, and if they don't, they quickly learn them. It doesn't matter what culture a person comes from, what language they speak or how old they are; everyone knows the words.
Three and a half year old Zack Hamilton was no different. while he may have never said the words, he surely hummed along to the catchy happy tune of Elmo's Song, for Elmo was one of his most favourite things.
Zack was a special little boy who's story needs to be read to understand why his humming of Elmo's Song is so meaningful. So please go read it now and then come back, I'll wait. ( Zack's Story )
Party at Your Place wants to help Zack's parents create Zack's Dream Room at York Central Hospital because:
1. Zack's story has really touched my heart
2. I believe this project will help his parents heal
3. Like Zack, I also love Elmo
4. I know the best Monster you ever did meet
5. Kids for years to come will have a hospital room that will be much less scary to be in. (Who can be scared in an Elmo room?)
Help us help Zack and his family by booking a Monster party with us today. We will donate $10 from every Monster party to Zack's Dream Room until his goal has been met.
This is one of my favorite songs to sing at parties because everyone knows all the words, and if they don't, they quickly learn them. It doesn't matter what culture a person comes from, what language they speak or how old they are; everyone knows the words.
Three and a half year old Zack Hamilton was no different. while he may have never said the words, he surely hummed along to the catchy happy tune of Elmo's Song, for Elmo was one of his most favourite things.
Zack was a special little boy who's story needs to be read to understand why his humming of Elmo's Song is so meaningful. So please go read it now and then come back, I'll wait. ( Zack's Story )
Party at Your Place wants to help Zack's parents create Zack's Dream Room at York Central Hospital because:
1. Zack's story has really touched my heart
2. I believe this project will help his parents heal
3. Like Zack, I also love Elmo
4. I know the best Monster you ever did meet
5. Kids for years to come will have a hospital room that will be much less scary to be in. (Who can be scared in an Elmo room?)
Help us help Zack and his family by booking a Monster party with us today. We will donate $10 from every Monster party to Zack's Dream Room until his goal has been met.
Saturday, January 29, 2011
Gift Buying Guide For Children Ages 1-5 Years Old
Sometimes one of the most stressful things about being invited to a birthday party is shopping for a gift. This is especially true if the guest does not have children or has children of the opposite sex.
If you want to buy developmentally appropriate gifts that will be loved by the recipient, this guide is for you.
First Birthday:
The first birthday is not only about turning one, but also about the entire year until he or she turns two. There is a lot of development that takes place during this busy year.
Look for toys that have an age of 12 months and up or 18 months and up. Avoid toys that say 6 months-12 months, as the child is already passing this stage of development.
DO LOOK FOR:
-Interactive bath toys (basketball, musical, drawing utensils)
-Hard cover books with easy to turn pages. If they include sensory opportunities, it's even better.
-Large soft building blocks
-Musical Instrument toys
AVOID:
-Toys designed to assist with walking
-Infant toys such as rattles
-Anything with pieces smaller than a Tennis ball
Basketball Bath Toy
Second Birthday:
Toddlers are active learners with a developmental need for play (like all children) that really emerges at this age. Educational, open-ended toys are key in helping a child reach their full potential.
Again, look for toys that are suitable for children from age 2-3 years. Avoid toys that end at the 2 year old level.
DO LOOK FOR:
-Wooden blocks
-Large Mega blocks
-Stacking toys or Fit shape into hole type toys
-Large wooden puzzles
-Large trucks and cars
-Books such as "Brown Bear, Brown Bear" (few words, predictable story, hard cover)
AVOID:
- Play tables designed more for 9-18 month old
- non-open-ended toys such as talking characters that do one specific thing limiting play experiences
Wooden Puzzle
Third Birthday:
Preschoolers are continuing to explore their environment and learn about about the world around them. Many children at this age really enjoy and participate in dramatic play.
Toys now generally have a broader age range such as; ages 3-5 years and 3 years and up. Continue to avoid toys ending with age 3, such as 2-3 years.
DO LOOK FOR:
-play dough
-Craft supplies; blunt nosed scissors, glue, paint, construction paper, crayons, markers
-Easel
-Dress up clothes
-Play kitchen, dishes and food
-Puppet theatre and puppets
-Blocks
AVOID:
-Colouring books
-Toddler puzzles
-Toy computers
Puppet Theatre
Fourth Birthday:
Many four year olds are in Junior Kindergarten and are more complex in their play. They need many open ended toys that allow them to extend and combine materials: example: wooden blocks are used to build roads to drive their cars on.
Toys tend to not state ages 4 years and up, but rather state 3 years and up or 5 years and up. Use your judgement on weather a toy labelled 5 years and up would be suitable for the recipient. Most children at age 4 are no longer putting toys in their mouths, so chocking concerns are subdued.
DO LOOK FOR:
-Lego
-Building toys such as marble works
-24-48 piece puzzles
-Cars
-Dolls and doll play accessories
-Dress up clothes
-Board games
-Action figures
AVOID:
-Large Mega blocks
-Colouring books
-Toy computers
-Wooden puzzles
-Barbie
Marble Works
Fifth Birthday:
Five year olds, like four year olds, are complex in their play. Readiness to read are more evident at this age and become of greater interest to children.
Toys that suggest ages 5 and up are good for this age, however many children are ready for toys labelled ages 6 and up as well.
DO LOOK FOR:
-Phonic and sight word story books
-Games and activities that encourage letter recognition
-Lego
-Building toys such as Kinex or Lincoln logs
-Board Games
-48-100 piece puzzles
AVOID:
-Colouring books
-Barbie
-Craft kits that are not open ended (Only one way to do it)
Child draws and writes their own story which is then published into a real book
If you want to buy developmentally appropriate gifts that will be loved by the recipient, this guide is for you.
First Birthday:
The first birthday is not only about turning one, but also about the entire year until he or she turns two. There is a lot of development that takes place during this busy year.
Look for toys that have an age of 12 months and up or 18 months and up. Avoid toys that say 6 months-12 months, as the child is already passing this stage of development.
DO LOOK FOR:
-Interactive bath toys (basketball, musical, drawing utensils)
-Hard cover books with easy to turn pages. If they include sensory opportunities, it's even better.
-Large soft building blocks
-Musical Instrument toys
AVOID:
-Toys designed to assist with walking
-Infant toys such as rattles
-Anything with pieces smaller than a Tennis ball
Basketball Bath Toy
Second Birthday:
Toddlers are active learners with a developmental need for play (like all children) that really emerges at this age. Educational, open-ended toys are key in helping a child reach their full potential.
Again, look for toys that are suitable for children from age 2-3 years. Avoid toys that end at the 2 year old level.
DO LOOK FOR:
-Wooden blocks
-Large Mega blocks
-Stacking toys or Fit shape into hole type toys
-Large wooden puzzles
-Large trucks and cars
-Books such as "Brown Bear, Brown Bear" (few words, predictable story, hard cover)
AVOID:
- Play tables designed more for 9-18 month old
- non-open-ended toys such as talking characters that do one specific thing limiting play experiences
Wooden Puzzle
Third Birthday:
Preschoolers are continuing to explore their environment and learn about about the world around them. Many children at this age really enjoy and participate in dramatic play.
Toys now generally have a broader age range such as; ages 3-5 years and 3 years and up. Continue to avoid toys ending with age 3, such as 2-3 years.
DO LOOK FOR:
-play dough
-Craft supplies; blunt nosed scissors, glue, paint, construction paper, crayons, markers
-Easel
-Dress up clothes
-Play kitchen, dishes and food
-Puppet theatre and puppets
-Blocks
AVOID:
-Colouring books
-Toddler puzzles
-Toy computers
Puppet Theatre
Fourth Birthday:
Many four year olds are in Junior Kindergarten and are more complex in their play. They need many open ended toys that allow them to extend and combine materials: example: wooden blocks are used to build roads to drive their cars on.
Toys tend to not state ages 4 years and up, but rather state 3 years and up or 5 years and up. Use your judgement on weather a toy labelled 5 years and up would be suitable for the recipient. Most children at age 4 are no longer putting toys in their mouths, so chocking concerns are subdued.
DO LOOK FOR:
-Lego
-Building toys such as marble works
-24-48 piece puzzles
-Cars
-Dolls and doll play accessories
-Dress up clothes
-Board games
-Action figures
AVOID:
-Large Mega blocks
-Colouring books
-Toy computers
-Wooden puzzles
-Barbie
Marble Works
Fifth Birthday:
Five year olds, like four year olds, are complex in their play. Readiness to read are more evident at this age and become of greater interest to children.
Toys that suggest ages 5 and up are good for this age, however many children are ready for toys labelled ages 6 and up as well.
DO LOOK FOR:
-Phonic and sight word story books
-Games and activities that encourage letter recognition
-Lego
-Building toys such as Kinex or Lincoln logs
-Board Games
-48-100 piece puzzles
AVOID:
-Colouring books
-Barbie
-Craft kits that are not open ended (Only one way to do it)
Child draws and writes their own story which is then published into a real book
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
Teacher Gift Tribute
Before all the kids start singing Alice Cooper and officially mark the start of summer vacation parents stress over what they should get their child's teacher. I know this post topic has nothing to do with parties but as parents most of us will face this challenge eventually.
I've received 100's of gifts in my years as a classroom teacher and have complied a list from my experience of gifts to avoid and gifts that will be used. I like to be creative with my gift giving but also give things that will not be thrown out or re gifted. Here are some of my favorite gifts that I have given to some of my children's many daycare/school teachers.
Movie Night In
This is by far my favorite gift to give. I start by getting a glass popcorn bowl. They have some nice ones at Party Packagers in a set of 4. What I did was use one bowl per teacher. You can also buy them at Home Outfitters and other Decor specialty stores.
Then inside the bowl I put a package of microwave popcorn, a shaker of popcorn flavouring, and a blockbuster gift card. You could also use a Kernels gift card or buy already popped kernels popcorn if you like. If you want to be a little more elaborate you can add movie theme related items such as; packages of licorice or a cute glass bottle of coke.
Then arrange the items inside the bowl, use popped popcorn as filler for decoration and wrap in cellophane.
This gift can cost as little as $20
The Caffeine Fix
This is a very simple gift that is sure to be used. Start with a coffee mug of choice. I like to get an over sized mug or a Tim Horton's mug. Then I add a Tim Horton's gift card (you could use Star Bucks instead, but don't tell me). Then fill the mug with coffee beans (for decoration) and place the gift card inside and wrap in cellophane. The gift card can be valued as low as $5.
This gift can cost as little as $10
Pamper Me Spoiled
You will see in my gifts to avoid section that I do not recommend buying many pampering items so this gift is very simple to put together. Start with a gift card to a spa or salon. One near the school or from Spa Finder are best. I like to add something to my gift cards (as you may have noticed) so I would add a pair of flip flops for a pedicure for example.
You could also do an at home pamper gift with a house coat, slippers and gift card for Shoppers Drug Mart.
This gift can cost as little as $50
Picture Perfect
A popular trend I've noticed is parents giving framed pictures of their child to the teacher. Now I have loved many children that have passed through my classrooms but do not necessarily want their pictures on my fireplace mantel. The best place to put your child's photo is taped inside the card.
Gift Cards
You may have noticed that my gift ideas all revolve around gift cards. The reason for that is gift cards are useful and by creating a theme around the gift card you add a personal touch. I also like that you can get gift cards for as little as $5 and up to whatever dollar amount you like.
Gifts To Avoid
Although it is always the thought that counts and I assure you teacher's appreciate everything someone gives them, there are certain things that I recommend you avoid buying for many reasons.
No Chocolate! Why? Because teachers receive too much chocolate. One year I remember getting 15 boxes of chocolate. Some teachers might not like chocolate, or they might love chocolate but be trying to diet, or they might be allergic etc.
No Soap or Lotion sets! Why? Because the teacher might have sensitive skin, might not like scented items and because soap is a personal item that should be bought personally.
No Home Decor! Why? because you haven't seen the teacher's home and do not know what their style is or their colour theme. These gifts are likely to end up in the closet until the next garage sale.
I hope you enjoyed my teacher gift tribute blog and that you find shopping this year a little easier. Now, where is my Alice Cooper CD...
I've received 100's of gifts in my years as a classroom teacher and have complied a list from my experience of gifts to avoid and gifts that will be used. I like to be creative with my gift giving but also give things that will not be thrown out or re gifted. Here are some of my favorite gifts that I have given to some of my children's many daycare/school teachers.
Movie Night In
This is by far my favorite gift to give. I start by getting a glass popcorn bowl. They have some nice ones at Party Packagers in a set of 4. What I did was use one bowl per teacher. You can also buy them at Home Outfitters and other Decor specialty stores.
Then inside the bowl I put a package of microwave popcorn, a shaker of popcorn flavouring, and a blockbuster gift card. You could also use a Kernels gift card or buy already popped kernels popcorn if you like. If you want to be a little more elaborate you can add movie theme related items such as; packages of licorice or a cute glass bottle of coke.
Then arrange the items inside the bowl, use popped popcorn as filler for decoration and wrap in cellophane.
This gift can cost as little as $20
The Caffeine Fix
This is a very simple gift that is sure to be used. Start with a coffee mug of choice. I like to get an over sized mug or a Tim Horton's mug. Then I add a Tim Horton's gift card (you could use Star Bucks instead, but don't tell me). Then fill the mug with coffee beans (for decoration) and place the gift card inside and wrap in cellophane. The gift card can be valued as low as $5.
This gift can cost as little as $10
Pamper Me Spoiled
You will see in my gifts to avoid section that I do not recommend buying many pampering items so this gift is very simple to put together. Start with a gift card to a spa or salon. One near the school or from Spa Finder are best. I like to add something to my gift cards (as you may have noticed) so I would add a pair of flip flops for a pedicure for example.
You could also do an at home pamper gift with a house coat, slippers and gift card for Shoppers Drug Mart.
This gift can cost as little as $50
Picture Perfect
A popular trend I've noticed is parents giving framed pictures of their child to the teacher. Now I have loved many children that have passed through my classrooms but do not necessarily want their pictures on my fireplace mantel. The best place to put your child's photo is taped inside the card.
Gift Cards
You may have noticed that my gift ideas all revolve around gift cards. The reason for that is gift cards are useful and by creating a theme around the gift card you add a personal touch. I also like that you can get gift cards for as little as $5 and up to whatever dollar amount you like.
Gifts To Avoid
Although it is always the thought that counts and I assure you teacher's appreciate everything someone gives them, there are certain things that I recommend you avoid buying for many reasons.
No Chocolate! Why? Because teachers receive too much chocolate. One year I remember getting 15 boxes of chocolate. Some teachers might not like chocolate, or they might love chocolate but be trying to diet, or they might be allergic etc.
No Soap or Lotion sets! Why? Because the teacher might have sensitive skin, might not like scented items and because soap is a personal item that should be bought personally.
No Home Decor! Why? because you haven't seen the teacher's home and do not know what their style is or their colour theme. These gifts are likely to end up in the closet until the next garage sale.
I hope you enjoyed my teacher gift tribute blog and that you find shopping this year a little easier. Now, where is my Alice Cooper CD...
Thursday, June 3, 2010
Simple Decorating Tips
The difference between a party and a gathering really is the decorations. Decorating can be very simple or very elaborate, either way it will help set the mood for your event. Here are a few quick tips and tricks to make your decorating process easier:
Balloon clusters: Poke a safety pin through the tie of 3-5 blown up balloons and close pin. This makes placing a clutter of balloons much easier.
Condense Decorations: Go all out with themed decorations in one select area (i.e. the food table) to maximize the effect. Then spread out streamers and balloons around other areas in colours that tie in with your theme.
Outdoor Decorating: Use thumb tacks to affix streamers and your safety pinned balloon clutters to your backyard fence. This will hold your decorations in place even on a breezy day.
Balloon clusters: Poke a safety pin through the tie of 3-5 blown up balloons and close pin. This makes placing a clutter of balloons much easier.
Condense Decorations: Go all out with themed decorations in one select area (i.e. the food table) to maximize the effect. Then spread out streamers and balloons around other areas in colours that tie in with your theme.
Outdoor Decorating: Use thumb tacks to affix streamers and your safety pinned balloon clutters to your backyard fence. This will hold your decorations in place even on a breezy day.
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
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Friday, March 26, 2010
A Slice Above
Aneesa Persaud is the owner of A Slice Above, her delicious cake business. I am convinced that she can make a cake look like absolutely anything. The reason I promote her the way I do is because she is reliable and delicious, and I am confident you will not regret using her services.
As an allergy sufferer, Anessa is well aware of the struggle parents have trying to find cakes without peanuts or eggs for example. As a result, she offers allergy friendly cakes to her clients. That means that a child with severe peanut allergies can still have the beautiful and delicious birthday cake they deserve. She works within your budget, no matter how small, so don't hesitate to contact her.
Aneesa made my son Dorian a Go Diego Go cake for his 3rd birthday, my son DeAndre Star Wars cupcakes for his 6th birthday and a custom Tetris Splash cake (don't ask) for my birthday.
Aneesa is conveniently located in Brampton. You can see 100's of her cake designs on her facebook page. (just click on this blog post title to be redirected there)
Aneesa really is...A Slice Above (maybe even two slices)
As an allergy sufferer, Anessa is well aware of the struggle parents have trying to find cakes without peanuts or eggs for example. As a result, she offers allergy friendly cakes to her clients. That means that a child with severe peanut allergies can still have the beautiful and delicious birthday cake they deserve. She works within your budget, no matter how small, so don't hesitate to contact her.
Aneesa made my son Dorian a Go Diego Go cake for his 3rd birthday, my son DeAndre Star Wars cupcakes for his 6th birthday and a custom Tetris Splash cake (don't ask) for my birthday.
Aneesa is conveniently located in Brampton. You can see 100's of her cake designs on her facebook page. (just click on this blog post title to be redirected there)
Aneesa really is...A Slice Above (maybe even two slices)
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Partying with Toddlers
Keeping toddlers happy can sometimes be difficult. Keeping them happy in a new environment can be even more difficult. Here are a few suggestions to help toddlers and their parents be a little more comfortable at your party.
Timing:
Schedule your party after nap time. 3:00 is a great start time for toddlers. 2-3 hours is more than enough time for a toddler party. By allowing toddlers to take their naps and have time to get to your party, chances are they will be less cranky and everyone will have a better party experience.
Set up a change station for your guests:
Help your guests feel comfortable about where to change their baby and where to put the dirty diapers. Your change station should have a changing pad, wipes, and a garbage. This Small gesture will help your guests feel more at home.
Keep things moving:
Toddlers lose interest quickly so have enough planned to keep their attention and avoid fussiness.
The more, is not always merrier:
Too many guests can be very over whelming for toddlers. Try to limit the number of people if possible to let your child be at ease during their special day.
By utilizing these simple steps in your party plans, you will see how pleasant a toddler party experience can be.
Timing:
Schedule your party after nap time. 3:00 is a great start time for toddlers. 2-3 hours is more than enough time for a toddler party. By allowing toddlers to take their naps and have time to get to your party, chances are they will be less cranky and everyone will have a better party experience.
Set up a change station for your guests:
Help your guests feel comfortable about where to change their baby and where to put the dirty diapers. Your change station should have a changing pad, wipes, and a garbage. This Small gesture will help your guests feel more at home.
Keep things moving:
Toddlers lose interest quickly so have enough planned to keep their attention and avoid fussiness.
The more, is not always merrier:
Too many guests can be very over whelming for toddlers. Try to limit the number of people if possible to let your child be at ease during their special day.
By utilizing these simple steps in your party plans, you will see how pleasant a toddler party experience can be.
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
You Can Do It!
The thought have throwing a party in your own home for some parents sounds like a total nightmare. The reality though, is it's not that difficult to pull off, and in the middle of a recession, it's not be a bad idea.
Having a party at home does take a little preparation, but it doesn't have to be overly stressful. First, be realistic with your guest list. Work within the space you have and don't invite more people than you can comfortably fit in your home. Next, decide how long you wish for people to be at your place. Typically a party runs about 2-4 hours. Then you have to decide what time of day works best for you and most importantly, for your child. You do not want to plan a party that interferes with nap time or bed time because that will only leave you with a cranky baby who is not enjoying their special day which, in turn, results in stress for you. Be sure to include the end time on your invitations so people know when they are expected to leave. Leaving the end time blank can make people unsure about when to leave and you might end up with guests much longer than you intended. Once you have decided on the number of invited guests and the time of your party you can start planning your menu.
I personally like to keep things simple and usually order pizza for my parties. Veggie platters, crackers and cheese and chips make great easy appetizers that cater to those watching what they eat and those who like to indulge. You may wish to cook your own food which will save you money but be sure to plan cooking times realistically. Cooking for a large group of people takes good planning and organization. Preparing as much as you can the day before can help your day run smoothly.
One thing that makes parties special is the decorations. Simply hanging a few streamers and balloons will make your child feel special and get everyone in a festive mood. I usually do this part during my child's nap time so they wake up surprised and excited for the party to begin. I like to set up one main table with a themed table cloth, napkins, plates and the appetizers. I tend to focus my decorations on this area to magnify the effect.
Now we have guests, food and decorations in place. Now comes the scariest part for many parents...entertainment. This is where we come in :) By inviting Party At Your Place to your event you can rest assured that your guests will be well entertained and talking about your party for years to come. One of our Characters will engage the children in various activities for one full hour. Typically I recommend parties laid out as follows:
-First 30 minutes for guests arriving
-Next hour for eating and socializing
-The next hour for entertainment
-the last 30 minutes for cake and goodbyes (or opening gifts if you do so)
I think 3 hours is the perfect party length as you do not have to rush and it doesn't drag on.
Our characters would sing happy birthday with you just before we go which also gets the kids settled for you to have cake and makes our goodbye transition easier since the kids know they are about to have cake.
By taking the time to plan your party at home you are not forced to rush in and out of a play center in exactly 2 hours or be charged extra. You can instead relax and let things happen and stop to enjoy the day with your child and save money at the same time because you can control the budget.
Having a party at home does take a little preparation, but it doesn't have to be overly stressful. First, be realistic with your guest list. Work within the space you have and don't invite more people than you can comfortably fit in your home. Next, decide how long you wish for people to be at your place. Typically a party runs about 2-4 hours. Then you have to decide what time of day works best for you and most importantly, for your child. You do not want to plan a party that interferes with nap time or bed time because that will only leave you with a cranky baby who is not enjoying their special day which, in turn, results in stress for you. Be sure to include the end time on your invitations so people know when they are expected to leave. Leaving the end time blank can make people unsure about when to leave and you might end up with guests much longer than you intended. Once you have decided on the number of invited guests and the time of your party you can start planning your menu.
I personally like to keep things simple and usually order pizza for my parties. Veggie platters, crackers and cheese and chips make great easy appetizers that cater to those watching what they eat and those who like to indulge. You may wish to cook your own food which will save you money but be sure to plan cooking times realistically. Cooking for a large group of people takes good planning and organization. Preparing as much as you can the day before can help your day run smoothly.
One thing that makes parties special is the decorations. Simply hanging a few streamers and balloons will make your child feel special and get everyone in a festive mood. I usually do this part during my child's nap time so they wake up surprised and excited for the party to begin. I like to set up one main table with a themed table cloth, napkins, plates and the appetizers. I tend to focus my decorations on this area to magnify the effect.
Now we have guests, food and decorations in place. Now comes the scariest part for many parents...entertainment. This is where we come in :) By inviting Party At Your Place to your event you can rest assured that your guests will be well entertained and talking about your party for years to come. One of our Characters will engage the children in various activities for one full hour. Typically I recommend parties laid out as follows:
-First 30 minutes for guests arriving
-Next hour for eating and socializing
-The next hour for entertainment
-the last 30 minutes for cake and goodbyes (or opening gifts if you do so)
I think 3 hours is the perfect party length as you do not have to rush and it doesn't drag on.
Our characters would sing happy birthday with you just before we go which also gets the kids settled for you to have cake and makes our goodbye transition easier since the kids know they are about to have cake.
By taking the time to plan your party at home you are not forced to rush in and out of a play center in exactly 2 hours or be charged extra. You can instead relax and let things happen and stop to enjoy the day with your child and save money at the same time because you can control the budget.
Welcome To Our New Blog!
Hello, and welcome to Party At Your Place's first ever blog post. I am Angela Galati, the owner of Party At Your Place. I started this company in 2007 along with my husband and since then we have serviced over 500 parties and events. It's been a fun journey and I can honestly say I love my job. It's wonderful meeting new people and making children's parties memorable for them year after year.
On this blog you will be kept informed on the latest party trends, money saving tips, contacts for other local party related (and even just child related) services and so much more. My goal is to help you plan the perfect party regardless of what your budget is.
Please follow us and invite your friends and family to do the same. You can also find us on:
- Facebook (link to our page is at the bottom of this blog)
- Twitter.com/partymomma
- www.partyatyourplace.ca
I hope you enjoy all we have to share with you and that you will turn to us to help you complete your child's upcoming parties.
On this blog you will be kept informed on the latest party trends, money saving tips, contacts for other local party related (and even just child related) services and so much more. My goal is to help you plan the perfect party regardless of what your budget is.
Please follow us and invite your friends and family to do the same. You can also find us on:
- Facebook (link to our page is at the bottom of this blog)
- Twitter.com/partymomma
- www.partyatyourplace.ca
I hope you enjoy all we have to share with you and that you will turn to us to help you complete your child's upcoming parties.
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